is this strange? does it mean something?

Question

My husband has never been into going down on me, or even fingering me. Just goes straight to the point. Not into boobs. Even though I like them to be part in the action. Has always asked for anal and loves my ass though. I don't do anal btw. Never have never will.

Answer

You should talk to him about it. If he straight up says he doesnt want to do it and isnt willing to do it, then he isnt takjng care of you. Like my bf told me he doesnt like fingering bc his hands are rough from working with his hands and eating out is a bit painful on his jaw. Hes willing to do other things and would eat me out if i asked him to but he explained to me why hes not jumping at the bit to do these things, but he wants to and likes to give me what i want sexually.
Thankfully neither of us are into anal and he doesnt ask me for things i dont want to do. Ive had guys before ask me for anal and i explained it out to them why i dont do it and they accepted that im not into it. Theyve alwas respected my decision first and didnt really pressure me. My most recent ex did pressure me a little bit but we talked about it a lot and why i wouldnt do it. We made a couple compromises like trying out minor anal play first and such but he always made sure never t cross any boundaries of what i was comfortable with.

Answer

It probably means he watches porn and wants the things that happen there. Unfortunately the things that give women pleasure are not part of the norm there. You need to tell him what brings you pleasure and what you want and need in bed. A good lover will listen and want to please you.

is this strange? does it mean something?

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