passive-aggressive or joking

so my fiance and I have been having issues. part of one of my issues is that he claims to be joking but he does it all the time. major turn off makes me not want to give him any because he always bitches about it don't give him enough blow jobs yet we have sex 3+ times a week and he usually gets one everything before we have sex. what makes me maf is lately I haven't because I've been puking and feeling really sick he knows I've been sick yet still complains about it. and he told me all that matters is if the guy gets off because it's to hard to get a woman off.

is it me or is he just putting his foot in his mouth?