A few days ago my husband told me he was going to get fixed because he doesn't want anymore children.. he said he doesn't want to be old still having kids in the house (he's 31) and he said he's not good with kids.. he's not and when we got together I didn't know that because he talked about his daughter alot. Since we got married he has only seen his daughter 3 times and it's because I push it and when she is over he doesn't spend time with her.. but corrects her when she does something he doesn't like.. he wouldn't let her sing the songs to frozen when she was watching the movie and told her if she sings again he would shut the movie off. That made me sad but I believe in NOT talking about things in front of kids so I kept my mouth shut. Im pretty torn by this because I was up front with him when we got together that I wanted more children and he said he did too. I've had alot of other issues with him lately which makes me feel like I have regrets about this marriage. He's not affectionate,he doesn't put me first in anything. He chose to work a job 7 days a week working 1hr40min away each way and when he asked my opinion about taking the job I told him it wasn't a good idea because we were already having martial problems but he took it anyways. So now I see him one hour a day then he's eating dinner and watching his favorite show. After that he plays on his tablet and then goes to bed. I'm mad, frustrated,depressed and fed up... I do the care about money. I want to feel special to him, I want to feel wanted.. I want him to touch me,kiss me,hold me..Show me he loves me... But instead I get loneliness!!!