Would you leave him?

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He massages your feet
He makes you food
He compliments you all the time
He wants to shower with you every day
He takes pictures of you 
He does all the things you like
He's not mean to you
He treats you like a princess
But..

You can't like/comment on any picture with a male. 
You can't wear certain clothes that he thinks it's too revealing 
He wants your location on, if there's nothing to hide, why is that a problem he says. 
He gets mad really easy, not at you, but if something pisses him off it shows. For instance, he'll punch the wall or door. 
If you don't feel like having sex, he gets upset. He don't get mad at you , but he'll be quiet for the rest of the day. 
He don't like me adding people back on Snapchat or instagram if it's a guy. Even though you have no intentions to cheat on him & you've never gave him any reasons to have these kind of trust issues.

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None of the positives you posted out weigh even a single negative. There are plenty of guys who can check those boxes and not be controlling as*holes.

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I would leave. He sounds controlling and violent.

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Uh those cons ARE him being mean to you. Also there are plenty of guys who'll think you're the bees knees without also being emotionally manipulative, controlling creeps.

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Argh, I hit no instead of yes. But yeah, I don't care how nice he is to me; if he's that controlling, it's not worth staying around.

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I picked the wrong one. I meant to click yes I would leave.

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No he is manipulating you which turns into abuse.

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Why do you think he punches the wall or door? I think this is a way guys show their physical power, like beating their chest. It is meant to threaten in some way. And it would scare me. I would never be with a guy who isn't 100% in control of his anger. That's just scary.

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I meant to hit yes... Accidentally hit no. I would absolutely leave him.

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I stay but he'd have to be able to see where he needs to make changes and be dedicated to making those changes. Like the wall punching...that'd have to stop. Giving you the silent treatment when he's mad.....that'd have to stop too.

The location thing doesn't bother me because I look at it like safety. I share my location with my kids and my SO.....just in case but it sounds like your guy is wanting it because he doesn't trust you and that's not good. Does he share his with you?

Sounds like he's got some good qualities but some warning signs that you need to be mindful of.

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Same would leave

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