i really need some advice!

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Hi ladies, 
I am facing a rather daunting dilemma. 
Due to my "advanced maternal age" 😒 i have been given the option between an elective c section and natural delivery... 
i am sooo confused, and have no idea what to choose. 
I have given birth naturally to 3 children, over 20 years ago, however my midwife told me that if she was me, she would opt for a c section due to the following factors: 
1- im 38
2- i have severe anexiety disorder 
3- its an <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> baby 
4- i have a high chance that my pelvic muscles would become weak. 
5- my vagina will become loose nd due to my age, wont go back to normal like i was in my 20s with my other births!
6- my partner wont be able to be with me for the birth, so going through labour on my own would be traumatic. 
Ohhh dear!! This sounds terrible! 
So basically, i was advised to just go for a c section and avoid all the complications above.
What are ur views?? 
Thnx in advance for ur highly appreciated advice.