anyone else notice this?

I've been told I shouldn't feel insecure about my body because it's the body that people want. My friend has been told the same thing. I am a smaller girl and she is a bigger one.
I feel as if people don't seem to notice that even if you are thin are thick, it still has to look a certain way to be "accepted".
People like skinny girls, but only if they have an ass and decent sized tits.
People like thick girls, but only if they have a flat stomach and no stretch marks or cellulite.
I have no ass, and a small chest. My friend has a belly, and has stretch marks and cellulite. We both get shamed for our body and then get told we shouldn't be feel insecure since we have the body that most people want, and it bothers us.
So to the skinny girls, if you have a small chest and no ass, you're still perfect. And thick girls, if you have cellulite, stretch marks, and a belly, you're still perfect. People only seem to like the ideal version of our body types and not how we actually are.