In a few short weeks my first and only child will be one. He has always been in the 80+ percentile for height and weight since the day he was born an easily weighs about 30+lbs (And before anyone says it, he is not overweight he is completely proportion, he is just a big boy). I easily weigh anywhere from 110-135 and I am a very small framed person with almost no muscle. So carrying him is becoming difficult and painful. I recently started dating again, and that's when he started being less independent. The guy I am dating also has kids, and my son has always been an only child, so he gets very jealous. Anyone have any tips for not only getting him used to the 2 other kids (who are 2, and 4 years old) and my new boyfriend having my attention as well as him, and tips on trying to break him from constantly wanting to be held all the time. Anything would be much appreciated!!!