So me and my SO are long distance. He comes to visit often and vice versa. However last time we jumped right into sex Bc he wanted Me so bad. But I didn't feel very excited or turned on sexually. How do I prepare myself for sex and stay "horny". He likes when I take control so that's a lot of energy needed. However its harder when I'm not wet enough or can't stay horny. I'm sorry if this sounds dumb. Someone help me. Thanks lmao ,😂