Do you feel like you look "queer"?

Question

Do you feel like people can guess your sexuality by looking at you? Do you wish people could guess more or less? How does this affect your ability to find dates?! Share below 🙋🏻

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I don't even look slightly queer. Due to the problem of "femme invisibility". It sucks. I wish I looked more recognizably queer. I came out over 10 years ago, I'm tired of going into queer spaces and still having people think I'm straight. 🙄

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I don't look Queer at all #femmeinvisbility is real. I do wish that I could have some identifiable sexual preference appearance so I don't have to deal with guys hitting on me but that doesn't exist just yet. Before I began dating my Wife I would have to try extra hard to be seen by women, so constant eye stare and flirty body language were LIFE! It worked on my Wife!

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I'm bi (or pan) and I feel like I look a little gay? I've had people ask me if I'm into "the ladies" 😂 to be fair that was after they'd already known me for a while. I wish I looked more queer because I'm dating a guy but that doesn't make me less bi, also the town I live in is quite conservative so I would like to be more visible just to open people's minds 🌈

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I've been told I'm kind of butch (it's more me not caring what I look like and wearing jeans to everything), and I apparently have a strong reaction to gaydar.

Do you feel like you look "queer"?

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