really needing advice and feedback.

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I don't think so, he never sees what I'm doing for him but yet I try so hard to do everything right for him. He say I should make him dinner and clean house and go to work while half the time he doesn't work because of the weather and just sits home and doesn't do much to help. He constantly makes me feel bad if I'm not making him dinner and cleaning when I get home after working for 9 1/2 hour a day. I try to do everything I can to keep him happy but when can you say enough is enough with a man your so scared to lose. How do you stand up for your self when he just says such hurtful things back like you mean nothing to him?