Its....kinda official...😂

So... my bf and I were...well... no better way to say it but sexting...when the subject of lactating came up. This in turn led to me explaining the long process of stimulating lactation with out being pregnant to which he said he'd rather see and enjoy his child growing in me knowing we're having a family.

Which then led to... the big conversation.

We've agreed to forgo all types of b/c methods and while we're not actively counting and planning we're not stopping to check the calender anymore either. I can't say I'm not a tiny bit nervous... so I pose this question. What advice do you have for a somewhat TTC couple? What should we do to make this more about the love for each other and not the possible months of BFN tests I'm sure to get in the future?