Loveless relationship, feels like we are business partners
I feel like my marriage is more of a business partnership. We both have jobs that require a lot of travel, and can be demanding. When we spend time together I find it boring...Its always filled with cleaning, talking about finances etc. We don't have sex...due to being tired from work or his lack of sex drive. I'm actually not interested in having sex with him because its boring...he is the more gentle soft kind and I like more of the rougher, high action...Nothing has changed no matter how many times I express my concerns....for the past four years. I feel like we are not sexually compatible.
When we do try to spice it up with a activity or mini vacation we usually end up in a fight or something. I never laugh with him...because he seems to always be on mission to accomplish the next thing never just being carefree and enjoying the moment. He is never spontaneous! Everything has to be planned. When we are doing something "fun" its not really that fun with him...he is always critiquing me about something, rolling his eyes or making An ugh disgusted look over small things. Like for example we are at the beach and I accidently dropped his phone into the sand and he gets very irritated about it. Or when I'm driving and I didn't take the exit he wanted me to take even thoughwecan still get there by taking the next exit.
He claims he is a laid back guy but I think he is far from that.
We don't have kids so we don't have that added stress, we do well financially.
Is this normal or are we are bad match for each other?
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