my boyfriend just went down on me for the first time tonight, and he did it willingly and i hadnt brought it up recently at all. Although he did it on his own terms, I dont think he was into it at all. He shrugged when i asked him what he thought but also said that if I like it them he'll do it. Do you think he'll warm up to it, or should I just tell him to avoid going down and save myself embarassment?