I've never been a very sexual person and my first relationship was very toxic, making me associate sex with pain and manipulation....

Now I'm in a great relationship and I feel like I am making huge strides with my sexuality, however its still as if sex isn't present in my mind until my partner initiates it... My friends think I need to start having me time to kinda "re-introduce" myself to my sexuality on my own.

Here is my problem. I don't know how to do that! I feel goofy and uncomfortable 😒

What are your tips and tricks, any toys you'd recommend?

Thanks in advance lovelies 💕