Needing Advice! Please.

I don't think we'd ever get pregnant...... It hurts because we had everything planned out and it's like now the that we are doing great financially it's like we barely have time to work on expanding our family. We literally try to make time for one another (ex. Movie Night is every Wednesday) but like tonight we were suppose to spend time together like alone time just me and him but once again WORK pops up. What should we do please I just need some advice we have two small businesses on top of working both 9-5. Idk should I just give up and accept that our family won't grow? Any suggestions. It's also starting to have an strain on our relationship.