Mom of 13 yr old daughter who is gay

Candra

I am not opposed as I am a very firm believer in everyone having their own preferences and people being who they are and not afraid to show it. It does not make her a different person, it doesn't make her anything less than the amazing girl I have known and loved, it does not bother me in any way. That being clarified.... I only have a few worries.

1. Her mother doesn't know and allows her to sleep over at girls' houses.

2. She is "going out" with a girl who lives close to her moms and she wanted to live with us until she started seeing this girl. We were already in the process of getting full custody of her and now she doesnt want to move 45 minutes away from her girlfriend.

3. I found out because her girlfriend posted a picture of them two kissing on line and when my niece saw it she told me that she knew my daughter is gay. So I asked my daughter (very respectfully and supportive of course) if she is interested in girls and she told me everything. So if she is kissing her girlfriend at 13 yrs old... what else should I be worried about? We have already had the birds and the bees talk but I dont know how to explain to her what gay sex is because I am not even sure. I mean I am kind of but idk what to say to her about that. I guess I am just asking for some kind guidance from anyone who is either gay or has a daughter or neice or something who is. I already made it clear to her that we support her, love her, and admire her courage to talk about who she really is. She knows we are her #1 fans. I just feel bad because I know very little. She answered some questions for me and I answered her the best I could... I just need to figure out what I should prepare myself for. Please do not be angry for anything I wrote. Like I said I am 100% supportive and I am only asking for any tips or advice as a mom that would help me, to help her. Thanks in advance!