ittt bitty titties 🙃

I went to Victoria Secret today, I wanted to finally gather up the courage to get sized and fitted to the ERFECT bra for ME, and upon arrival I was asked what size I normally wear (32A). 

Now I have a small physique, so small boobs just comes with it. But then I was asked how old I was; which then was met with a shocked expression when I told them yes, I'm 20! They thought I was 14! The lady tried to be helpful, when I expressed my self esteem issues she goes "honey I understand, I have a love hate relationship with mine". I was eventually just asked "why do you want a bra? Is it to feel sexy? For practicality? Do you want the one that adds two cup sizes? It's a little pricey but I feel like it may meet your expectations. The padding will fill out the cup a little more." To which, I left after feeling degraded enough. I know I have BTB, but when I'm trying to find something cute to wear for myself and my honey without being unrealistic (LOL BOMBSHELL WHAT?!") I don't want to be spoken down to. Please don't offer me the smallest size you have then go "oh, you are small girl you're smaller than you appear." 

So any suggestions on maybe some cute items for smaller busts? I'm thinking maybe a Lacey bralette but I'm afraid of my chest looking boney or super flat because of the attention the lace may draw. I know I have atleast a little boob going on lol.