My ex recently entered and re-existed my life now that I'm in a relationship. It was 8-9 months since we last spoke and needed to get his life together. He "came to get me" so to speak but was hit with a ton of bricks when I told him I was in a relationship. He was the one who told me to move but thought I would actually wait as well. He is on his way to earning his B.A this spring and has his own car and apartment. He's been on my mind constantly now but I really like the guy I'm currently with.