BDSM: Planning a scene
When planning a scene, you've gotta have a long, real convo with your partner. Discuss what you both want from the scene, what you're feeling about it, and what your hard and soft boundaries are. Also plan a safe word that can be used by either of you any time to end the scene!
When planning a scene, it's a good idea to make a "yes/no/maybe" list. It is what it sounds: A piece of paper on which you outline what you're totally into, what you might consider, and what you definitely don't want. This allows you get get in touch with your own desires and expectations, and shares them with your partner so you can respect each other's boundaries—and stage a super hot scene!
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