SEX FANTASIES: Force fantasy

Fantasizing about forced sex doesn't mean that you're weird or that you're "asking for it"—nobody "asks" to be sexually assaulted. It also doesn't mean that you can't get over past trauma, even if you have been sexually assaulted (though if you're super bothered by these fantasies, it's always an awesome idea to talk to a therapist).

Instead, you might be into the idea of surrendering or intrigued by the play of power. That's totally normal! Don't feel bad or guilty while exploring or sharing with a partner.