38 weeks 3 days still not dilated 😓

Kaylyn
I have had no progress my past 2 appointments and I'm doing all I can to not feel like my body is letting me down. I have walked, ate spicy foods, had sex and used a maternity ball as well. When I mentioned it to my doctor she said "Nothing you see or hear on the internet will help you until he decides that the time is right". So now I feel like sitting and waiting for 12 more days is going to drag! I'm still working and that also adds to my stress 😭 I'm not trying to get pitty from anyone just want to know if I'm the only one who is having this issue. Should I or should I not be discouraged? I'm due April 5th 💙👶🏼