My boyfriend refuses to use condoms. It's usually not a problem since he pulls out, but he refuses to even have sex when I have my period or I'm in my fertility window. I'm not on birth control because I haven't had any luck on the shot, two different brands of the pill, and the arm implant. I've been trying to stay away from the hormonal contraceptives, but my boyfriend really wants me to go on at least the pill again. We have condoms that I bought, but no matter how I ask he always says no to wearing them. Any advice on what to do? It's getting to be a real disadvantage of going 2 weeks without sex since he travels for work too.