Real friends?

My friends haven't met my baby and she turned 5 months on the 20th I am really heart broken, I am confused and uncertain if they r truly real friends. They came to my baby shower and one of them bought so many gifts I thought shed be the first one to visit. I have told them many times they are welcome to visit. Iv hung out with them once after I had my daughter to get breakfast with them. It was really cold that day so my bf took care of her but they never bother to ask. We group message each other on fb but its always pointless convos, sometimes they feel force. One of them has two grown kids of her own and a little one and the other has no kids. They don't bother to ask how she's doing, they just like my pictures when I post.. My best friend has seen my baby more times but usually doesn't bother. Always asking me to go to the movies or bars/places where I can't bring my lo whats the deal with that? It angers me, her bf wanted to wait years to have their kids but things might change because she mention about losing weight so she can have a healthy pregnancy in the future and being off birth control.I was happy and excited because my baby can have someone to play with but now it seems like all she talks about is herself...she went mia when I was pregnant but for over it but sometimes I can't help but dropping my friends or going mia from social media and seeing who actually cares! Thoughts??..