my boyfriend wants to try anal? 😳

Question

My boyfriend and I had sex yesterday and after he told me that he wanted to try anal. I kind of want to try it to, but i keep thinking gross thoughts and if it's gonna hurt a lot. anyone have any advice on this topic?

Answer

I LOVE anal!! 🍑 I didn't at first but now I love it and beg for it!! Here is my anal how-to list of game changers that made anal super fun for me as well as my boyfriend:
1. A respectful, loving partner whom you trust 👫
2. Anal douche kit- I bought one on eBay for $10. Cleaning out before anal helped me relax a lot and being more relaxed made it easier for me to feel pleasure! 💦
3. Butt plugs! - my partner and I became obsessed with jewelled butt plugs (I'll attach a photo) And they really helped me get into the feeling of something going in and out of my behind! My partner is into anal too so we would play with the butt plugs on each other doing anal 69. It's magical. Now when I do anal I like to warm up with the butt plugs and then I'm ready for the big stuff! 🍆
4. Clit play at the same time- I love holding my vibrator to my clit while getting my ass pumped! It makes for even more amazing internal orgasms!! 🌟
5. Use oil- lube dries up and can feel uncomfortable after a while, use oil! Oil doesn't dry up, and it's cheaper too! I use coconut oil but I've also used yummy flavoured oils a couple of times 💧
Anal is really amazing and really took my relationship to the next level. It really brought more love and trust and closeness between us 💗 It may sound cheesy but it's really true. It also helped me get more into my body during sex rather than stuck in my head 😘

I hope this helps and you have ass-mazing anal experiences! 🍑🍑🍑💗

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The best way to start is in the spooning position with a water based lube. Lots of lube! Also you control the speed. It hurts when you start, but now I enjoy it haha. I also use a condom, but I know some don't.

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Personally, it hurt ALOT! But once it's all the way in it's fine.. may be different for others though.
LUBE IS A MUST! A MUST! And take it very slow, I find it better if I slide onto him and take control for the beginning..don't let him force his way in too quick especially if it's your first time.

my boyfriend wants to try anal? 😳

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