everyone sucks

So this weekend we went to brunch with SO friends and the topic of our ttc was pointedly brought up where male friend (who has never ttc) was telling me to stop making a big deal out of it. 
   
Except I haven't made a very big deal out of it, I have never discussed our issues ttc with anyone other than my sister, 2 best friends (who had issues also) and my dr. My SO has requested to only know the information he needs to, which is only what dates he needs to be in town. 
   
With all of the ACA stuff going on and me possibly switching jobs soon, I just recently suggested to use as much of the current benefits we have for infertility before they are no longer an option. I might be switch jobs in the next month or so. My SO thinks I am panicking but I think this is logical since we have been having issues for some time and I am 34. 
   
I have been asked almost every day at work if we are ttc or pregnant, my family asks the same, his family implies it, some of my friends who are not in the loop bring it up like it is a topic for a bar convo, and now his friends are telling me they know how to fix the problem (by me chilling out about it)?
   
Everyone sucks right now and I wish they would all just STFU and stop. Has anyone else dealt with this?