Fiancee and I have been together 7 years. I have been ttc for 3 years, he has done his part but he is fine that it hasn't happened. As for me, I feel like my heart is breaking daily. I want him to be the father of my children but I want him to want it too and I just don't think he does. I also honestly feel he could take or leave me, we have a 12 year gap in age and he already has 2 kids.

I don't necessarily want to end the relationship but part if me wants to move out on my own because I've never really been on my own before. One major issue is we have 4 pets, my 3 cats and my dog. I know I can't take them to an apartment if I move out, at least not all of them and I don't want to leave him with sole responsibility.

I just want to sort things out and figure out if marriage is right for us, I just am having lots of doubts because of our thoughts on children.

What is right? Should I stick it out or get some space?