Dating a really great guy actually comes with a few hiccups

Ladies, I'm so confused right now. I've been dating an amazing man for about 8 months now. We're currently living together. He's a very sensitive man which is something I'm not used to. He doesn't see me as a sex toy which was refreshing at first. But now, we're going on 3 months, NO sex.. sure I've given him blowjobs and he's returned the favor a few times, but other than that, nada! I'm not sure how much longer I can go without sex, seriously, it's starting to screw with my emotions, lol! I know he isn't cheating on me, I have full trust in him. It's just that he has problems with depression, as do I. But when I'm feeling stressed or down, my go to is sex. He's the opposite. I've gotten to where I don't even try to initiate sex anymore because I'm being rejected left and right. I love him, I've been patient. What do I do?!