Ugh I can't be the only one. I give my man head, and then if I ask for oral he will only give in 69, while he receives. He has never once given without simultaneously receiving. And it's always only side by side 69, so it's always awkward. 10 years later still the same. And then he gets tired and quits like 1 minute in.  I've tried just dishing out over and over, without anything in return. But as soon as I get bold enough to ask for the favor back he says, flip around we can 69. 😒