Foreshadowing
My SO tends to foreshadow all the time.
He asked what would I think if he'd had a female dealer, I found out a month later he'd been contacting this one female dealer. Strike 1 which he ruled as "coincidence"
He had asked me once saying if I'd ever date someone with a child, I responded I'm not sure and I asked him the same thing. He responded no. A few weeks later I found out his ex has a kid. Strike 2 which he said "I thought you knew" ...uhm NO? If I knew I wouldn't have asked. He'd lied about her being 'just a friend' so no I didn't put the pieces together.
Yesterday I showed him a scratch on my lip that my kitten did he she was playing around and running and he was like yeah right someone probably bit you haha. That was the end of that conversation and today he comes with a damn bite mark in his lip. He ate wings and tried arguing it was sauce. LAME ASS EXCUSE. He'd eaten 3 hours before and I'm sure the saliva probably would've washed it off in a way and he would've tasted if it was sauce.
Earlier he said he was going to "take a nap"
Whatever cool, but he's been lying about smoking (I've told him many times I don't care as long as he's upfront about it, he's lied too many times and has had too many chances)
He keeps using the excuse that the sleep keeps giving him "puffy red eyes" when I know his ass ain't sleeping. So I texted that to him and he responded instantly. when he picked me up he was sober and clear eyed.
Strike 3 now he's upset and doesn't understand why I don't believe him.
Am I wrong here? I've tried explaining because EVERYTHING happens to be a "coincidence" with him. I just know he foreshadows every single thing and his story just doesn't make sense
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