Stopped taking the pill! 2 questions

SheeWolff🌸
I stopped taking the pill 9 days ago. I was scheduled to get my period today, as I've gotten the same day since I started taking the pill 3 months ago. But I didn't get it. When should my period start again? I googled lots of things that say my period should resume to normal within 2 weeks of stopping the pill but if not then you have some syndrome. My husband and I are ready to start trying again and I can't ovulate without getting my period first 🙄 Also, after I stopped taking the pill (which was the last week of the pill pack) I started bleeding for about 4 days. At first I thought I got my period because I stopped taking it before my sugar pills but after I googled it, it said it was not menstrual blood. Is this true? 
Any help is greatly appreciated. Thank you.