Any hope?

cassafrass • .

This is my first cycle ttc number 3.

My past 2 cycles have been 35 days....I'm now on cd 41 and af is nowhere to be seen. I don't have any of my usual pms symptoms like cramping or acne. I'm bloated, nipples hurt and my cervix has been soft for 2 weeks now...it's usually firm and open before af. All hpts have been negative. If I was pregnant it would have been positive by now right?

This waiting game really freaking sucks.