Cherry

How do you know if you "popped your cherry"? My hymen looks as if it was ripped recently from sex and my vagina has been leaking a brown mucusy substance for a few days with what seems like tiny seeds or something in it. I'm guessing that this is bits of my hymen that are coming out but I'm not sure if this is normal or what I am supposed to expect. Could the mucusy stuff mean that I am possibly be pregnant? My last period ended on March 18th so I am possibly ovulating but I've never had this dark colored mucus before at this time in my cycle...