okay a question for ladies who's SO had kids before them!

Nicquel • 20... zion 💙
Okay so the guy I'm talking to/dating now has 3 kids already (before me) from a previous relationship. Maybe #4 with me 😬😬😬 how did y'all handle having other kids in the relationship? Was it a hard transition getting to know them? Was it awkward? How long until they were comfortable with you?