My boyfriend and I have been together for five years. Living together for the past three. We have a blended family. I have a nine year old son. He has a seven year old daughter and a five year old son.

This morning he went to pick up his kids from his ex-wife. When he got home with the kids my son and I were in the living room watching cartoons. We'll both his kids ran into the living room with new toys in their hands and said "look Tyler (my son) we got new toys!!!"

I guess they decided to make a trip by Walmart on the way home to pick up some groceries as well as new toys for his two kids.

My problem is he left my son out of it. When the kids announced that they got new toys, my son said he wished he had gone too.

This isn't the first time this has happened. It doesn't bother me that he got his kids toys, it bothers me that my son was left out of it. It bothers me that he didn't think about the other child that was in the house and how that would make him feel. It bothers me that he couldn't pick up a dollar car to give to him to make him feel included.

It's ironic because my son and I were in Walmart yesterday and we picked up a bubble wand for him and we decided to get one for the other two kids in the house along with some sidewalk chalk.

We are not great communicators but I'm trying my hardest to not hold things in and let them build up. So I said to my boyfriend, "I need to say something and I'm going to say it in the nicest way possible". He responded with "Oh God, what now?!". I said why would you say that and his response was well I guess I'm just not ready to hear whatever it is it's wrong.

I told him to talk to me when he was ready to hear me out. So now it's going to be this whole big drawn out issue and it's dumb.

Am I wrong for being upset that he left my child out?