Should I be worried about my boyfriend watching porn?

Question

I found some videos on my boyfriend's phone of specifically black woman, such as "black teen gets fucked" etc.. I'm the palest white girl ever so these videos are soooo far from what I look like. Should I be worried?

Answer

It's normal and healthy for anyone in any relationship to watch porn. It would make me uncomfortable too if I found porn that was specifically a different race or gender or body type than me, but it isn't a problem. Discuss it with him if it really bothers you, but don't be accusatory. Also,  understand that if he likes you and enjoys his sexual relationship with you then whatever porn he watches shouldn't impact your sex life.

Answer

I personally think porn is wrong in a relationship. I found porn on my exes phones. Stuff like "Sell your girlfriend porn" "Mature man with very young girl". (With more vulgar language). It was disgusting and disturbing. I would have a talk with him about boundaries and what you're comfortable with. If you aren't, don't be a ashamed and don't just "deal with it". You'll be unhappy. Your feelings are valid and he needs to respect them. If watching porn is more important than you, you need to rethink the relationship. (Personally) I think porn is degrading and if my man needs to watch that instead of be with me, he can have the porn.

Should I be worried about my boyfriend watching porn?

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