How can I feel treated in sex better

Amber
Me and my boyfriend have been having penetrative sex more often lately but I feel like we skip all the good stuff now 
When we first started hooking up we would have long makeouts and then it would be kissing to oral to fingering and now we kiss a bit and then go straight to sex and I don't know if it's because he can't last that long we are young we're 19 but I just don't get much out of it like he does 
The fun has been taken out of it for me 
I fee like when there is time for kissing and touching it's only when I do it 
I've said to him a few times about how I feel like I don't get much back like I don't get oral or a lot of kissing and touching like I give him
And he says he's sorry and that he will focus more on me but when he does he doesn't spend half the time he used to spend 
I'm not sure how to even address this anymore without sounding mean or something 
Help me out