how was it the first time you had sex?

Question

So I haven't really done it yet. And I don't know what to expect of it. And I'm really curious about how it would feel when you do it the first time. It would be really nice if you guys could share some of your experiences so I wouldn't be too shocked or something 😂

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We were both talking about it for awhile and doing other things (oral, fingering) to get used to our bodies and prepare my vagina for sex. That helped a lot I think. It wasn't anything incredible. People really need to know that sex takes practice. It's not amazing the first time or first many times. You have to learn each other's bodies and likes and know what you like and what will make you orgasm. I thought I would feel changed or different after having sex but I literally felt no different at all. It wasn't a huge thing. My partner and I were so comfortable and open together so we felt ready and it happened one day. It was a little awkard, I was nervous because we were both virgins. It hurt a little as he went in but after he was in it was fine. It was slow and a little painful basically. We have been together for three years and are sex keeps getting better and better so don't worry yourself over expectations of it having to be a certain way. Go with the flow, relax, use lube, and make sure you're comfortable with the person you're doing it with. Make sure they respect you and your body.

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If y'all know each other really well it should be fun. And also keep in mind if you've never been.. like fingered or anything 😂 (kinda awkward sorry) then it'll probably hurt but yeah....

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It was a little awkward & very slow...neither of us really knew what we were doing bc it was both of our first time. Just go with the flow & you'll be just fine. If it hurts too bad, tell him. He'll understand. 
Just for advice, the wetter..the better. It's a lot easier that way.

how was it the first time you had sex?

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