My fiancé is the 3rd of his name and wants our son to be the 4th. At first, I was more than on board but then he changed his mind and we started looking at names and I got excited to actually get to pick (even though I was okay with it, I was disappointed that I wouldn't get to pick my first child's name), I even found some that I liked. His family (that his name came from) doesn't want him to continue it, they all believe that 3 is plenty and 4 would just be too much. But now, after I've gotten my hopes up about picking out our sons name, he's changed his mind again and wants to name our son after himself. Is it bad that I'm disappointed and I don't want to use his name anymore? I haven't said anything to my fiancé about it because I know how he feels about it. But if his family doesn't think it's a good idea, does that make it less awful that I don't want to? And he never confided in me that he was changing his mind back. He just decided and that was that.