Do you "hook up" with people? No strings attached sex.

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Please answer why you do and if you think it's a positive experience/activity or not. I'm doing an experiment about healthy sex and what that means for people. Thank you! Also please no judgment in the comments against others and their choices.

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I used to, but it was terrible, I just couldn't have sex with no emotions involved. It was TOO weird!😕

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I used to and tbf it didn't really bother me. I was going through a bad time and I just didn't want to be with anyone. I litturally felt like if I slept with other people I'd feel better about my self and in a way feel wanted

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I'm not sexually attracted to anyone unless I have an emotional attachment.

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I did, way back when. I'm an old fart now. I'm from the sex and the city generation where women finally started to own our sexuality. I feel no shame for my sexual past. I met my husband 10 years ago. We've been married almost 8 years. I think as long as you are safe and educated about sex and enjoying yourself, the rest doesn't matter

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I personally would never be able to. I've dated 3 men in my life and the 3rd guy I'm with is the only one I've lost my virginity to. He's my husband, he also thought the same so we lost our virginity to each other :)

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Before I was with my husband I absolutely could. I can have sex based on physical attraction only. I'm a very sexual person and I don't need to love them to enjoy sex..... but Maybe that's just me.

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I had a one night stand once (we were on a night out and I'd been chatting to this guy whilst getting mortal drunk, all my mates went home in a strangers car and I refused to go with a total stranger so got stranded in town. Stayed at the club and had a few more drinks then went back to his because there was no taxis and I was so drunk at this point I didn't care! We said we weren't going to do anything but obviously I got into his bed to sleep and one thing lead to another and we shagged)

Would never do it again though!! Haven't drank since either 😂😂 and for some reason I still have him in my facebook page but we never spoke again hahaha

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I personally do not. My mom was diagnosed with HIV a few years ago. So I've seen the damage that STDs can do. And there is just no way I can have casual sex now; just out of that fear and paranoia.

But I don't think casual sex is bad. I've got no problems with people who do it or enjoy it. If you want to have sex, go have sex. My ex gf has a lot of one night stands and fuck buddies and she is very happy with that lifestyle. She doesn't like being tied to one person. She likes open relationships and poly relationships because she just simply likes sex and wants to have it. Nothing wrong with it as long as you are safe.

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I used to, I slept with 12 people in the two years between losing my virginity and meeting my fiancé. 
  My virgunity was taken, and u didn't view sex as an emotional thing. Anyone I dated and really cared about, I didn't sleep with. But I had quite a few friends with benifits. I never slept with a stranger, I always knew who I was sleeping with. I only regret three of my partners and one of which was the one who took my virginity.