was a sexually assaulted?

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I got really high the other night (friday), to the point of not remembering much. I stayed at this guy's house, assuming we were just friends. I stayed in his bed and he like started touching and then told me to take my pants off so I did. But then he got on top of me and all I could think of was how heavy he felt on top of me. And then he pushed himself inside of me, I'm pretty sure without a condom. The next morning I went home and I felt so gross. I told my mom the next day (Sunday) and she got me Plan B.
The day after, I went to school. I had told my friend who was there with me that night (we took her home before) and she apparently asked him about it that day at school. He texted me on all of my social media and told me to "stay in my lane" and that I need to shut the fuck up and stop telling everybody. It just really sucks and I feel super gross for everything that happened and I have a class with him plus a few more weeks of school left. (I'm a sophomore)

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I'm not here to judge. Getting high isn't my thing. You didn't know what you were doing because you were high. He should have known better. He is in the wrong here because he knew you were not in the right state of mind

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This is sexual assault, any time you are under the influence, especially to the point where you don’t remember certain things from the encounter, that means you were not sober enough to fully consent. 
He took advantage of you and at this point it is up to you to how you would like to proceed. 
This is not your fault and please don’t listen to people who are victim blaming. 
He is the only one at fault and him threatening you to stay in your lane, let’s me know that he knows what he did was wrong too and he is scared of it getting out. 
Just know it’s never too late to report. 
Try to stay in a positive space and give yourself time to heal from this.

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Okay so why are you a sophomore and getting high when you're alone with this dude? That already doesn't make sense to me. I don't know what you've been doing but if you refer to marijuana when you say "high".. you don't get that high that you can't say no..
On the other hand, the way he acted afterwards I don't think is okay. And what kind of friend is your friend if you are telling her something and the first thing she does is going to this guy?
You are a sophomore, you have no business getting high with a dude in bed.

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Did you say no or try to push him away?

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Yes that is not okay! I would definitely say something to someone

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Well was he influenced too? High or drunk?

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Yes, it was sexual assault and NOT your fault. Remember that. It's not your fault! You kissed him, BUt did not consent to sex! You could file charges against him. He's acting very guilty by telling you to shut up and stuff. He might have even done this to other girls. Please see a counselor about this. I know how painful this can be.

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