what makes you a confident woman?

So I've been going to this bible study and something the lady said is that there is nothing more attractive than a woman who is confident in herself. I've been struggling with that for years! I'm 25 now and am just starting to find a balance and a rhythm in doing things that make me feel good. I used to be so worried about what other people said or thought about me to the point I lived my life for others and not for myself. I can tell that 2017 is definitely going to be my year! It started off strong and it just keeps coming. I'd love to hear what makes you confident in yourself. How do you break the mold?? Don't be shy , give a shout out!