Would you ladies be ok with your fiancé/husband/boyfriend having friends who do nothing but cheat on there SO? And then gets mad when you don't want him hanging out with them?

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Just because they chest doesn't have anything to do with my relationship if my SO cheats that's on him 100% not his friends or the women but him he's the one who went out of the relationship  .now do I think those friends are completely Jack ass hell yes and if I had prof I'd tell their spouses no one deserves to be cheated on .

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No because I would feel like he would be Influenced

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Luckily my husband won't stand for something like that. But I trust my husband so I would never tell him who he can and cannot be friends with. I do believe there is some truth to the saying "show me your friends and I show you your future" though so I probably also wouldn't feel too comfortable with my SO associating with people like that.

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There are plenty of studies to show you are the company you meet, generally that applies to the negative first. The negative always seems to influence the bad and not the other way around.

Luckily my husband wouldn't be friends with people like this

I don't tell my husband who he can and cannot be friends with. He's a grown adult who makes his own decisions. I'd be mad if my husband told me to be friends with too

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Yes. His friends cheating doesn't mean that he will cheat too. And if he does end up cheating, that isn't his friends fault - it's his. He is his own person, that makes his own decisions. He doesn't have to agree with that his friends do.

I have friends. Do I like/agree with every single decision they make in their life? No.

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Guilty by association.  
We carefully decide who gets the "friend" label and who we hang out with.  You have to guard your marriage with every line of defence and unfortunately sometimes this means removing some inner circle people.

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You are the company you keep

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Yes. "Bad company ruins good morals".

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My S/O have brothers that cheat but he has nothing to do with that he is his own man can't no one make him cheat. Its not about them its about your mate and do you trust him.

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Thats bullshit. If he doesnt see cheaters as scum then....? Id be recording their convos and sending them to the girls theyre cheating on.... They wouldnt wanna hang around your house anymore lol.

Would you ladies be ok with your fiancé/husband/boyfriend having friends who do nothing but cheat on there SO? And then gets mad when you don't want him hanging out with them?

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