I've taken care of tons of babies and toddlers (including raising my newborn bro from when I was 9 to 13.) My bf's sister is a year older than me and has an 8 month old daughter. She didn't go to high school and has never had a job or any life experience whatsoever. All she does all day is leave with her friends to do drugs and drink and smoke cigarettes, forcing her parents to watch her child. She insists that she's soooo much more intelligent and tries to give me advice and tells me what I need to do and prepare for. I want to punch her in the fucking face. She whines about how depressed she is all the time and says she doesn't have a purpose. I'm like "you have a goddamn daughter you selfish bitch!" And her parents just enable her and tell her that she needs a break cause raising a kid is hard. She doesn't even take care of her fucking kid so why tf does she need a break?? I have depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, OCD, add, and I'm dyslexic and slightly autistic. I've been homeless and physically and verbally abused and bullied and have had multiple jobs since I turned 15. I've been through a lot of shit and I'm not a fucking idiot. I understand hurting and being depressed all the time; but saying you don't have a purpose or anything to live for when you have a child (and a loving boyfriend) is so fucking selfish! I stopped smoking and drinking a week before I got pregnant and refuse to go back to it now that I'm going to have a child. I've changed my life so much since I found out I was pregnant and she has the fucking nerve to tell me (constantly, I might add) that she is more intelligent and has much more experience than me (with everything!) and that I should take her advice. And his parents tell me that I'm not allowed to do anything! They won't allow me to vacuum because they say it's way to strenuous and can hurt the baby. The won't let me pick anything up or move anything or bend over at all and I want to tell all of them to fuck off. I'm a grown ass woman and they won't even let me make my own fucking decisions! When I say I'm going to do something they all freak out and insist that I sit down and let someone else do it. They won't even let me pick out my own baby stuff because they insist I must only get organic food and clothes and I have to get the most expensive and safe everything! Ugggh!😡😤 I hate that I'm too respectful to say anything to them about it. I don't want them to hate me and I would never want to split up my bf and his family. I don't want to rant all of this to my bf cause that's his family and I don't want to hurt him over it all or stress him out more than he already is. My bf constantly tells them I'm not stupid and I can handle doing things on my own but they won't listen. They piss me off. Rant over.😅 I feel better.