So me and my boyfriend have been together almost 6 years and we lived together for 2 years had our daughter and I moved out. But over the last few months we've talked about living together again. He's agreed to move to mine because it's two bedrooms etc. But he's handed his notice in to his letting agent today and I'm having doubts. I can't deal with his mess. And we've discussed it and argued about it loads. Don't get me wrong I'm not the tidiest person either. But like today I left his this morning to go to work. Flat a mess and dishes still from last night. I got back with my daughter after he started work until late tonight and nothing had been done and I had the sudden realisation that even though I don't live with him a clean his flat all the time for him. He wakes up late. Plays games and doesn't feed himself. Refuses to go to bed anywhere before midnight and we hardly ever have sex. I don't know what to do. I don't want to get to the point I got to last time and leave because I can't deal with it anymore. Feeling constantly undervalued. I know he's acting like a child still but he's 25 this year and I honestly thought he would have snapped out of it by now.