A little worried
I'm 36 weeks pregnant and the other day my husband admitted that he's sorry our sex life has dried up quite a bit the last few months (we've gone from 2-3 times a week to maybe 2 times a month). Plus with the whole bump, it's been more awkward with positions. He told.me with the baby bump and seeing me carrying his child and motherly, he's just not that turned on.
Which I get, I don't feel sexy, I'm big, sore and swollen, and it never fails that when we're making out, the baby starts moving and kicking like crazy, which awkward and a big distraction.
What I'm worried about is after the baby is born.
Will he only see me as a mom and not be as attracted to me?
Will our sex life ever return to even somewhat of a normal?
I miss the sex and intimacy and with almost being done with this pregnancy, I'm ready to try and find a new normal.
It's strange because I've always been a mom since we've been together, since I have a 7 year old from a previous marriage. But it's probably just the pregnancy part of it.
I just miss sex with my husband.
A vibrator is fine, but just not the same.
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