Butt Stuff ?

Question

My boyfriend is a butt man. And he wants to do anal. But I'm not sure. Why if there's a problem?Or what if it's not what he hopes for? Everything I've ever heard about it is that it's super painful. The only positives I see is that I won't get prego and he's happy. 
Plus I'm very self conscious about my body, especially my butt. I don't think I have one, but he disagrees. And I have two birthmarks on my ass that always make it look like I don't know how to wipe. 😝😫  
Anyone have any advice on his top or has done it and loved it?

Answer

Make sure you move into doing anal slowly. Start with buying differing butt plug sizes and use lots of lube. There are lubes that will numb you a bit if you think you might need it.

Always use lube. Start with fingers, then move to butt plugs. You may not actually be able to do anal until you get more comfortable with these two first.

Just move slow and if you don't want to do it at any point or it's too much, say so.

This should be just as much something you want to do, not just him.

Answer

If you aren't ready or comfortable with doing it then don't. Don't be pressured into doing something you aren't ready for because it will be even more uncomfortable, especially if you are worried the entire time