Cheating? Husband- Venting
The first time; we had just started dating and I had looked through his phone and found some messages. It was to an "old friend" and he swore up and down they didn't mean anything. However, I felt like they were too friendly, too flirtatious. But I forgave him.
The second time; We were about 10/11 months into dating and we were on a date. Had a great day!! we decided to end it by going to the park and walk around. He goes to bathroom so I check his phone... "heyy, we should hang sometime😉" I confronted him about it and he responded by breaking his phone and swearing he won't do it again. I forgave him.
The third time; We were engaged for about a month and I looked through his phone again, I see he's been snap chatting some girl who only speaks French. He tells her things like "I wish you spoke English" and flirts with her. I ask him about it and tells me "he accidentally added her while searching for a childhood friend." And that I shouldn't "be like that" because he has no chance with her. She lives on the other side of the world. I blew it off and forgave him
The fourth time; We've been married for about a month now, and we go visit his home town for his mothers birthday. We go home after the party and he tells me "I'm going to go get some food stay here." Of course not wanting to be left alone I tell him no. Our Facebook messenger is connected, a message from his ex pops up and I read the convo. "You still live in the same spot? What time is your bed time😉" When I confronted him, he says he was drunk. He didn't mean it and that he wouldn't have gone threw with it because he was drunk.
... I forgave him...
I don't know if what I'm doing is wrong.. I love him. I married him for a reason... I don't want to leave him, technically he hasn't full blown cheated.. I just caught on before it was too late.
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