why don't i cum during sex but my partner does?

Question

me and my boyfriend of almost a year finally had sex a little while back...we continue to have sex every once in a while, but how come whenever we do i never cum but he always can??

*keep in mind, i'm 18 about to be 19...and we both have gave each other our virginities*

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It's soooo easy for men to come during sex. Most women, not so much! Some women don't even come from penetration alone, it usually takes some form or cliteral stimulation too.

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Have him give you oral and focus on the clit, while fingering you as well. If you are unable to cum from P in V sex, oral sex might work for you! That's the only way I get off fully. But you can try other positions that stimulate your clit, like doggy style, reverse cowgirl. Or he could even rub you down there as you all have sex. Just keep practicing and trying new things because something has to work! 😊

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My baby's father always cums and I never do. I always have to finish myself after he goes to clean himself.

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I recommend a cock ring with a bullet vibrator inside - it makes him last longer and gives you the stimulation required!

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It can take a girl up to 20 minutes before she's ready to cum, or that's what I read somewhere. My boyfriend always cums right before I'm about ready to so I have to rub myself. Just try different things while having sex. Different positions can hit the gspot and make you cum.

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I require foreplay beforehand. Then I'm more likely to cum.

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I only cum when I'm on top and that is only sometimes.

why don't i cum during sex but my partner does?

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