if you bled when you lost your virginity, how much did you bleed? I'm a virgin and I'm meeting my boy on Thursday and we have both agreed that we are ready to lose it to each other (I'm 17 and he's 16 a few months younger than me) but I'm really worried I'm going to bleed. it's not that I'm scared of the bleeding, that doesn't massively bother me but i don't want to make a mess on his bedsheets because we still live with his parents and i know his mum does the laundry so i don't want her to see if i do.