TTC: Trying not to jump the gun or assume.

Joleeta
So I don't have any one else to talk to. So I'm turning to complete strangers. Hopefully, I can get some honest answers. My fiance and I are TTC. We have had a couple times where we thought I was but I wasn't. Now, this month I am having some really odd symptoms that I have never had before. My lower abdomen is kind of tight and hard, not to mention the mild spasms and cramps. I don't cramp up before my periods ever, so o know that it's not period related. I wondering if these could be a couple of good signs or should I see my soc about these issues? I'm asking your honest opinions.